I've been teaching Ms A about empathy, sympathy, obedience and consequences recently. Today was a rather rough day since we didn't get the sleep that we normally have (one more week than a no more night classes, but that's another story). Ms A and I have been butting heads
ALL DAY LONG. Since she was so tired/ornery, I insisted on a nap!!! I had her lay down and she instantly tried to convince me that her tent is her nap time sleeping area,
"It would ruin my pattern, Mommy!"
"I would need to sleep in my bed THREE TIMES to get back to my pattern and I CAN'T DO THAT!!"
Her thinking took her to a new place when she asked me:
"How would you feel if you were me and couldn't have your tent to sleep in?!?"
I quickly replied, "I would have obeyed my mommy so I wouldn't loose that privilege for another day."
I appreciated her logic and obviously she's learned see things from another's perspective, but obedience and consequences ruled the day.
Am I being too mean???